I'm quite surprised at the posters agreeing with your husband to be honest!
It sounds like you are well aware that the weight has crept up and are already trying to lose it. In those circumstances there is absolutely no need for him to be dropping hints subtle or unsubtle, all that will do is make you feel worse.
And it's only been ten months. and it doesn't sound like you are huge.
if you'd gained three dress sizes and it had been two years and you showed no intentions of losing any weight, then yes maybe it would be a good thing for him to kindly drop hints. But doesn't sound like that's the case.
Is he offering to take care of your daughter while you go to the gym? or are you just magically supposed to fit it in somehow?
By the way, my weight also crept up during maternity leave. However since I've been back at work (away from the biscuits
) it's been coming off pretty quickly.
in summary - I'm in the tell him to eff off camp!