Postby skateb » Wed Dec 30, 2015 10:28 pm
My little girl has just turned 2 and in the last month or so has become more and more clingy towards me. I'm a SAHM and my husband works long hours so she is with me the majority of the time - I've always put her to bed, husband doing occasional weekday and weekend baths and obviously spending weekends and days off with her. She used to be more than happy to go out with him alone and they even spent a weekend together while I went away (she didn't bat an eyelid!) but in the last few weeks she has gradually descended into a daddy hater. She won't let him do anything. And I mean ANYTHING!! Mummy has to dress, change nappies, get milk, serve all food, bath, (you get the drift!), or there is total meltdown with no letup. If, God forbid, I try and go out without her there is a huge tantrum, kicking and screaming which doesn't stop until I return. She won't even entertain the idea of going for her usual walks around the common with him. She will happily play / hug / kiss him when I'm around but can also sometimes be quite mean and push him away, pull faces and refuse to say goodnight / goodbye with no obvious trigger.
Obviously it's nice for me to feel wanted but it's getting very exhausting! And my poor husband totally adores her and is starting to get really upset. We keep telling ourselves that it's a phase and it will pass but there are no signs of any end to this!! We've tried acknowledging it and reasoning as much as we can, using bribery to be nice to daddy and also totally ignoring it. But nothing seems to be working. Anyone ever experienced this on this level before? Or any ideas on how to manage it?
TIA
A tired mummy and a sad daddy x