by supergirl » Mon Jan 18, 2016 10:04 am
Hi there
I agree it seems harmless at the moment but for me this symptomatic of an issue which if not looked into could lead you where you dont necessarily want to go.
To me there are a few warnings signs: you wonder/call it an emotional affair, you are conscious of daydreaming and you are already anticipating the next trip. So for me, if looks as if you have nearly gone, at least in your head.
Mind you, i have been cheated in the past so i may be i over sensitive.
If it was casual you would be saying to your husband that you have a project with someone interesting and maybe your husband should know him, etc.
Why is it difficult to have those friendly chats with our husbands/wives? As you say, when children are young it feels like co-parenting and the everyday mundane things take over.
As someone said earlier, maybe you should now prioritise your relashionship with your husband (your children will be fine even they come second for once) and escape just the two of you.
I remember the last time we escaped with my husband, we were amazed to realise that the spark was still there, the fun, the commitment and the love as well. It is too easy to forget when juggling everything.
Good luck in whatever you decide. Sx
Hi there
I agree it seems harmless at the moment but for me this symptomatic of an issue which if not looked into could lead you where you dont necessarily want to go.
To me there are a few warnings signs: you wonder/call it an emotional affair, you are conscious of daydreaming and you are already anticipating the next trip. So for me, if looks as if you have nearly gone, at least in your head.
Mind you, i have been cheated in the past so i may be i over sensitive.
If it was casual you would be saying to your husband that you have a project with someone interesting and maybe your husband should know him, etc.
Why is it difficult to have those friendly chats with our husbands/wives? As you say, when children are young it feels like co-parenting and the everyday mundane things take over.
As someone said earlier, maybe you should now prioritise your relashionship with your husband (your children will be fine even they come second for once) and escape just the two of you.
I remember the last time we escaped with my husband, we were amazed to realise that the spark was still there, the fun, the commitment and the love as well. It is too easy to forget when juggling everything.
Good luck in whatever you decide. Sx